FirstDream Group Tours

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A FirstDream group tour is unlike any other of the group tours offered today. No other company or agency puts in the time and effort that we do for each of the men attending to help assure him of the most successful, efficient and productive group tour in the industry today. If you are thinking of just hopping on a plane, going to three socials and meeting a lot of pretty young girls and choosing your wife from one of the girls at these three socials, then our group tour is not for you. Having personally attended several of the larger socials during my own pursuit, I have seen what I consider the good, the bad and the ugly that these socials have to offer, and as such, we have taken the good, made it even better, got rid of the bad and the ugly (as we perceived it), and have created an efficient event and environment that we think is just as fun and rewarding for the men, as it is for the special ladies who are attending.

Most of the larger agencies that sponsor the socials have over the last five years seen the number of men who are attending there socials reduced by 75%. One time there were 50, 60, 70 men going to these socials, one social I attended in Moscow had 75 men. Today these same agencies are averaging 12 to 16 men per social (and many times much less), half of what they used to draw, and one of the original agencies to do large group tours has stopped doing group tours all together,...why? Because, in my opinion, the truth about many of these socials has gotten out! Men, mostly thanks to the Internet, have become more aware of what is going on. With many of today's bigger companies that sponsor socials you basically have two types of ladies who attend; the women who attend social after social after social, (many of which I call social scammers, working girls and party girls) and who could make up probably over 80% of the women in attendance, and the sincere ladies who are attending for the first, and LAST time. Many sincere ladies attending for the first time are so disgusted by what they see that I have seen many good ladies walking out of socials early in tears. So many young, beautiful girls who are dressed very seductively and who aggressively seek any and all men. These are not your typical Russian ladies! Young girls who latch onto any man of 45, 55 or 65 years of age (preferably those with diamond rings, Rolex watches, gold necklaces), holding onto his arm, not wanting to ever let him go, staring into his eyes making this man think he has luckily meet his future dream bride. So young, so beautiful and sensual are these women, that many of these men think the stories they have read and heard from some of these bigger agencies about Russian ladies preferring older men are true and how lucky they are to have met their young beautiful bride. "Two hundred women here and somehow my dream bride finds me, and so quickly", he convinces himself. It is the goal of each one of these social scammer women and professional daters to keep this man occupied for that evening, and the next two days if possible, keeping him away from the other socials and other ladies, even if that means screwing his brains out that first night. If she can manage this, and many of these women are quite good and successful at this, she will now have this man to herself for the remainder of the week. During this time she will acquire new clothes, purse, cell phone, shoes, things for her flat, spending money, etc. When these good, sincere ladies who show up for the first time to these big socials see what is going on, and how these social scammers, party girls, working women aggressively go after the guys attending, and how very few of the men pay any attention to the sincere ladies, many of these good ladies get up and leave, promising to never attend such a function again and in the process telling other good ladies of what is taking place. And these ladies tell other ladies who tell other ladies. Today it is getting harder and harder to find good, sincere ladies to attend many of these bigger socials and as a result the percentage of social scammers attending steadily increases. The word "socials" in my opinion is getting such a bad reputation and black eye with so many ladies in Ukraine and Russia today that I do not want to even use the word social in association with our group tours. So I have replaced the word social for party. Maybe the word party is not as professional sounding as the word social once was, but if I use the word social it will certainly affect the caliber of ladies we are trying to have attend our functions.

Ask almost any man who has attended some of these bigger socials and he will probably tell you what I am saying here is the truth, word for word. In my opinion these socials put on by most the larger tour providers have seen there better days as the word has gotten out about the majority of type of women to be found there. Look at how many good references some of these big agencies have of men who can talk good about the socials, who recommend the socials. Please, check with some of the men who have attended our group tours. With great pride we offer you the opportunity to talk to men who have been part of our group tours. Many of our clients have also attended one or more of the big socials and listen to their opinions as to the difference's between our parties and the socials. I personally work very hard with each of these men for 2-3-4 months prior to each trip to help him have the most effecient trip possiable. And not all ladies are met just at the parties. The many private meetings that the men work hard for are just as important as the parties. We don't just hop on a plane, go to three socials, choose one of those woman for our wife, WE work for your success, YOU work for your success. You meet ladies who you are interested in and ladies who are interested in meeting you.

A little about our parties.

All the ladies who attend our parties have to be invited. Women are not allowed just to walk in off the street and attend. At our parties we have free champagne, wine, juice, food and snacks, not just for the ladies, but for the men also. There is of course a bar and bartender for those who prefer soft drinks, mixed drinks and beer. Good music, plenty of dancing, and we have various contest's, prizes to give away and a few games that we play which help to liven things up and allows for everyone to know others better. For the first couple of hours we will keep the men moving to different tables, as Russian ladies for the most part are somewhat shy. Usually men will be at a table with his interpreter and four or five nice ladies for about 12 minutes. During this time you talk to the ladies, see which ladies you may have an interest to get to know better. We have found that this is the best way to have the men meet many wonderful ladies in a short period who interest them. Each man will have his own interpreter and his interpreter can help him to set meetings with the ladies. The last few hours of the parties, when the dancing begins, we just let mother nature take it's course. We provide interpreters at all our parties, one interpreter per man. Unlike the interpreters in the past who have worked for some of the bigger social companies, we pay our interpreters for their services. I have heard, and had a few interpreters to verify to me, that the interpreters who have attend some socials for some of the larger companies are invited to attend but are not paid anything. They are told that if they work as an interpreter that they will have the opportunity to meet many foreign men who are interested in marriage to a Russian woman. Now correct me if I am mistaken, but doesn't this seem like a conflict of interest if I have an interpreter who is working for me, trying to help me with a lady I have interest in, when the interpreter might have an interest in me! I would wonder what exactly she is telling the lady I have interest in? It has happened in the past and it will happen again where an interpreter who is interested in a man for herself will deliberately sabotage a potential relationship. Our interpreters are told of our strict code of conduct. They are not allowed to date or be involved with any of the men until the last party in that city is over and they cannot be an interpreter for any man they might have interest in. If we see or find out otherwise, we will not use this lady as an interpreter again. I am happy to say that since we started this practice six years ago I believe some of the other agencies have changed their policy about their interpreters, closely following the guidelines and standards we have set.

A little about our Group Tours.

It is not only these parties that we organize in these cities that constitute a FirstDream Group Tour, in addition it's the many hours we work together and the setting of many private meetings with ladies who interest you. The FirstDream Group Tours starts from the first day we start working with each other and goes till the time you land back at home after your trip. We strive for success and in my opinion the more sincere ladies that we can introduce you to the better your chances to meet someone special. The FirstDream Group Tour will be an experience that you will remember the rest of your life. I think with over 80% of our clients they say it is the best trip they have ever had. Several men you will meet on our group tours will be in many cases be friends you will have the rest of your life. Together we will do the required work and preparation in order to assure that you meet a LOT of ladies in the time that you have. In fact it is my goal, which is reached about 80% of the time, for you to have more sincere, beautiful ladies than you can meet in the time you have. I usually work closely with each participant from 2, 3, 4 months leading up to the trip. During this time we help create the all important, well worded first letter of introduction that you will send to many ladies. We will help with the wording of regional and local newspapers ads in such a way to get the type of ladies you are seeking to reply. We place men's ads on the Internet with select Russian servers. We create bio's and profiles that are sent to select, sincere marriage agencies we work with. Getting your best photo, hand delivering letters with a single red rose to ladies you would like to meet, responding to letters, how often to respond, what to say, what not to say in these letters in such a way that it does not effect the overall goal of meeting many ladies on your trip, delivering flowers or gifts, weeding out scammers, organizing the trip, getting the type of flat you want at the location and price you want, helping you to get your Russian visa or airfare at the best prices, getting your train tickets, having people to greet you as you arrive, seeing you off as you depart, getting you telephone calling cards and showing you how to use them or getting you your own cell phone during your trip. Most the guys will rent cell phones ($20 a week) and are in constant contact with each other, with us, and with the ladies. As previously mentioned, our group tour is very much customized to the individual. If you have interest to meet a lady or two in a few different cities other than where the group tour is, not a problem. We can have her come to see you or help you in going to see her. Or maybe you want to go to some other city to meet a few ladies before you head to Ukraine or Russia to join the Group Tour, not a problem. Maybe you want to go to only two cities on the group tour, maybe three, four, six, seven cities, it is not a problem. You go where you feel you have the most interest. We customize our Group Tours around each individual and this is one of the reasons our Group Tours are so successful. I don't think any other agency goes to as much care and attention as we do to help insure a successful trip and I proudly offer their references as proof. Men going on our Group Tours can elect to stay in flats or hotels. All our flats on these Group Tours are located in the very center of the city. We keep all the guys fairly close, usually within 10 minutes walk of each other and within 8 minutes walk of the center of the center. Some guys don't mind sharing a two-bedroom flat in order to reduce expenses. With some cities the prices of hotels in the center are better priced than flats and often we will stay there. A little about the guys who attend our Group Tours For the most part we are dealing with grown, mature, successful men. Anytime you bring a dozen men together you are going to have a dozen different personalities. I try very hard to blend personalities. It is nice when all the guys enjoy the company of the other guys. If I run across a guy who wants to go on a Group Tour and I think he is not sincere or his character or personality would be detrimental to the other guys going, in short, a problem character, I don't accept him, plain and simple. I have no problem in always finding a good group of sincere guys who want to go on one of our Group Tours and as such I will always try to blend together good personalities. I will work as hard for a guy's success as he will. Those that are the most serious and work the hardest ALWAYS have good results. This doesn't mean he will always find his dream bride on the trip, but he will certainly have had the opportunity to meet a great many sincere ladies.

Changes with upcoming Group Tours

With the men who attend each group tour I always ask for feedback and suggestions. Our group tour as you see it today is pretty much a result of what has been recommended from the men who have gone before you. With every trip we get new, good ideas to make the next trip even better. The ratio of men to ladies, the time at each table, the time set aside for dancing, when, where, how long the private meetings, the number of private meetings before and after the parties, all in some way are attributed to those who have gone before you.

Request of men on Group Tours

The biggest problem I face with each group tour is guys falling in love so quickly with the first or second woman they meet. I ask each participant to enter into a gentlemen's agreement with me that he will attend the parties that he has invited ladies to meet him at. During time we work with each other most men will have found several ladies in each city that he has interest in having private meetings with, ladies he will not see at the party. These are usually one or two hour meetings. If their is chemistry with any of these ladies the men will of course see more of them. With the ladies who are invited to the parties this is usually done some two and three weeks before the actual parties and so the ladies are very much looking forward to this day. Many go out and buy new outfits; many have their hair done. I have to ask of each man who is thinking about going on a FirstDream group tour to consider my request. If you sign up for two cities, or four cities or six, if you invite ladies to the parties in these cities, I ask you to make it to these parties. Do not fall in love in the first city and say to heck with the ladies who are excitedly waiting to meet you in the second, or third city. It is great that this man has found a wonderful woman in the first city, this is what we are all seeking, but he should carry out his obligation to the other ladies in the other city or cities, meet all the ladies, then he can take a car, train, plane, back to her city, or have the lady meet you in Kiev. If this man thinks he has met the right woman he will only re-enforce his feelings about her by meeting the other ladies. Every man who is considering going on our group tour, MUST agree to this. If you invite ladies to the parties, you need to make it to the parties. If you have us to arrange private meetings for you, you must make these private meetings. If you cannot agree to doing this then please do not consider a FirstDream group tour. See guys, these parties, and these meetings with the ladies, there not only for you guys, there also for these fantastic women. It is very hard for us to have to tell these ladies that one of the men has changed his mind. It is a feeling I do not like and it also undermines the integrity of the parties as the ladies are expecting to meet a certain number of men and it is not fair to the ladies or the other men attending.

Our staff, the agencies I work with, and myself, we take a lot of time and effort (and pride) in order to present to you good, sincere, beautiful women. This is why we have the success we do with each group tour. When you can bring together a select group of sincere men and introduce them to a LOT of wonderful, beautiful ladies, it is not so difficult to help create many successful, happy marriages.