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As briefly mentioned earlier, all men are different and the means and methods a man use's are those he is usually most comfortable with. Some guys can and prefer to meet several ladies on any given trip. Other men prefer to meet only a few and some men prefer to write one woman, meet one woman. Many times, well most the times, the guys who write one woman, meet one woman realize fairly quickly that this is not going to be his future wife. Writing letters and e-mails, talking on the phone, is quite a bit different from that all important face to face meeting. For those guys who go to see one lady and realize there is no chemistry with the one lady, our people will jump into high gear and help these men to visit trusted marriage agencies and reviewing catalogs of sincere single ladies seeking marriage to foreign men.

At First Dream we have worked hard to develop good relationships with honest and ethical local marriage agencies in all of the cities we offer our services. Many of these agencies are on the Internet but some are not. Many times when the local agency we work with calls and tells one of their ladies that an American or foreign man has interest to meet her, these ladies with great excitement come quickly to the agency to learn what they can about this man who has interest in them. Their are diamonds to be discovered in some of these smaller honest agencies.

Years ago when I rented a good flat in the center of Kiev or Moscow or St. Petersburg I would pay what most other foreign men were paying. I thought these prices for good flats in the center of Kiev, Odessa, St. Petersburg and Moscow were high so I ran ads in the local newspapers hoping to reach the flat owners directly, which we did. By doing this I found out that most the other agencies and individuals who were renting these flats to me and others were adding $20 and $25 a night over the cost that the flat owner was charging. For the past seven years we have been charging our clients $5 a night over the cost of what the flat owner or agency was charging us.

Venice? No, it is St. Petersburg.

Every day of the year we have clients in some part's of the FSU. One thing that I have learned in dealing with a couple thousand clients since 1997 is that all men are different. Even though what means and methods work for one man may not work for another I like to think my expertise is helping a man to meet a lot of sincere ladies in a short period of time and then after doing so, to be able to concentrate his efforts and time with one, two or three of these special ladies who rose to the top. I do not mind a client spending two hours with a lady whom there is no chemistry with but I do not want him spending two day, three days, four days or more with a lady whom there is no chemistry with. What a waste of productive time.

During these trips time is too important a commodity to waste or not to use efficiently. I help men to organize their trip and to arrange to see several ladies in the first few days he is in a city if he is the type interested in meeting several ladies. Ideally a man will have interest in some six to eight ladies in every city he visits. I mean a sincere, real interest in these ladies and if he does not have several ladies serious to meet him then he is not ready to make his trip. Once he does have these several ladies of real interest then I help him to see three or four ladies the first full day he is in the city, spending a two hour lunch or dinner with each lady and seeing three or four ladies the second day he is in the city. Now after two full days he has met all the ladies he had interest in. Now after meeting six to eight ladies he thought he had real chemistry with, on average, he will have potential chemistry with one lady out of every seven and he will be lucky if their are two ladies he has real chemistry with. But only a few days earlier before he was leaving for his trip in his mind he felt he had real potential chemistry with all the ladies he was going to see. Now after seeing all five, six, seven or eight ladies in the first two days he will spend the remaining five, six days with the one or two ladies he felt real chemistry with and he will not be wasting his time with any woman there is no chemistry with. If by chance their was no real chemistry from any of the ladies he had meet is when we go into our back-up plans mode. Maybe he has two or three back-up ladies to see or now we begin to go to visit some of the local honest marriage agencies.

For any man who has written one lady, fell in love with one lady and is going to go meet one lady, I have real concern. It is so easy to fall in love with these ladies by looking at her beautiful photo, by writing over the Internet or through letters, by talking over the telephone. I feel that over 70% of all the guys and clients I know who went to meet one woman knew in the first few hours that this woman was not the one for him. Not so good, now to spend the next week with this one woman when you know she is not the one for you and to see these thousands of beautiful Russian women with their big smiles back to you, and their is nothing you can do about it. Well, that is not the case anymore! Most of our clients who goes to see one woman now go with a back-up plan in place. And about 60% of our clients who go with a back-up plan have the balls to put that plan into effect when they realize the chemistry is not there with the one woman they went to see.

Do I know the value and importance of a back-up plan? From actual experience, yes. The lady on the right in white dress, Ludmila, we wrote for 7 solid months. I had already made a few trips to Russia and thought, thru Ludmila's photos, phone calls and letters, that she was the one. In my mind I knew she was the one, she was going to be my wife. So I was going to spend a solid two weeks with my Ludmila. She was there to greet me at the airport and I walked right by her, I didn't even recognize her! Looked a LOT different in person compared to her photo. During our first few hours together I was thinking uh-ohh, getting some bad vibes, maybe things would be better tomorrow I thought. The next day it became plain that the two of us did not have the real chemistry needed for each other. Eleven days left in St. Petersburg and no back-up plan. What a bummer. I made the best of these eleven days by visiting local marriage agencies and that was the last time I ever went to see only one woman. But prior to this trip, I KNEW in my mind she was the one. Phone calls, letters, e-mails, photos can be deceiving. This is why I feel it is important to have many face to face meetings with these ladies we have built an interest in. The more sincere women you can meet will only help you to find, and know, the right Russian woman for you when you meet her.

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Men I think you owe it to yourself to meet more than one Russian woman. How can any man say that the one and only Russian woman he met was the best woman for him if he was not able to compare her with another, a second, Russian woman? Part of every deal I want to make with any client who goes to see one woman is to be opened to the idea of having a back-up plan.

For those men who want to meet several ladies on a trip, we can help your trip to be more effective and efficient. We will make sure you are taken care of from city to city to city on any given trip and all aspects of your trip are covered. How to find these ladies, how to make sure your ladies receive your letters, when to write, how often to write, what to say in your letters, what NOT to say or discuss in your letters/e-mails, what type of photo to send. You have a lot of competiton today and whatever little things that you can say or write that will make you stand out from the rest and gets her attention are things you need to consider.

On a weekly basis we go to train stations or airports and greet ladies coming in to see men. Most ladies will arrive early in the morning, several hours before the man arrives. We will meet the ladies early and her to his flat that he has rented. After she has had a few hours to rest and re-freshen we can go by and pick her up as we go to the airport to greet him.

Every week we escort men to select honest and ethical marriage agencies in cities that we offer our support. Every week we take clients to the airport or train station of the city they have been in for a few days or a week and we send them to another city where they will again meet a few or several ladies. Our FirstDream staff calls to the city you are going and advise the FirstDream representative what time and flight number you arrive on or what train and car number you are on and your time of arrival. As well most our clients will have a FirstDream rental cell phone.

Monument to the space program-Moscow

The pursuit for a Russian bride and the methods and means one goes about meeting ladies is always changing. Russian ladies from various cities, regions and countries are not all the same, they will have many differences as a result of the culture in which they were raised. There will be some areas where ladies are willing to accept greater age differences and other areas where they do not. There are some regions where ladies are not as concerned about a man's look but more his heart. Some areas are known for the high percentage of scam and scammers, other areas are known for the great number of sincere ladies.

For men wanting to find a young bride it will be no problem. But be careful what you ask for or you might get it. When I first started out with my own pursuit for a Russian birde I put a self imposed 12 year maximum age difference between me and the ladies I met. Svetlana was 12 years younger, Veronica 10 years younger. After getting to know these ladies it was hard to believe their was 10-12 years age difference. Over the next year I dated a few women 12-15 years younger than myself and I was pleasantly surprised at the maturity level of these ladies.

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