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Hello Gentleman, I would like to take just a few minutes and to tell you a little about our marriage agency, and some expressed opinions. FirstDream incorporated in the year 1998. Prior to this I had helped some foreign men in Russia in 1996 and 1997. By this time I had also met some 65 to 70 really wonderful Russian ladies. Seems the few ladies I had real interest in did not have interest in me and the few ladies who had interest in me, I did not have strong interest in them. But these were all wonderful ladies, just not the right chemistry for man and wife. Their was something new that people were talking about, and using, called "the internet". This got me to thinking, as I enjoyed helping men to find a Russian bride, as I had met some wonderful Russian ladies, why not create a site introducing these 65-70 ladies that I knew to be real and sincere, to foreign men. So I contacted each of the ladies I had met, asked what they thought about me trying to help them find a good foreign husband and all but 5 of these ladies thought it was a good idea and said sure. Thus was the beginning of FirstDream. |
| FirstDream is going to be different from all other agencies. What are
some of those differences? Some of those differences are we will provide
you with ladies direct contact information. We want you to have direct
contact with ladies who interest you. If you cannot get a ladies direct
contact information from any agency or site, what are you doing? How long
are you going to send e-mails through an agency? 6 month, a year, two
years? How many e-mails must you send, how much must you pay, before you
can get a ladies direct contact information? We want you to have direct
contact immediately with any and all ladies who interest you. I work with
a lot of good agencies. I will not work with, or recommend, any agency
that men cannot get ladies direct contact information.
Remove the agencies from the middle of your communicating with any and all ladies. Yes, these are the words from an agency owner, remove any and all agencies from the middle of your communications with any ladies. You can use any agency or individual to help you translate a letter or e-mail, but you need to send it to the lady directly, and you need to receive the ladies reply directly from her, not through any agency. |
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Every man needs to realize that
it will be no problem for him to marry a beautiful Russian woman. Many
men could, and many men do, marry the first and only Russian woman they
ever meet. You will not need my help, or anyone's help, for you to marry
a beautiful Russian woman. But you might need help in marrying the right
Russian woman, the best Russian woman for you. Try to meet ladies who can speak at least a little English. I know some
men will disagree with this, mostly those men who met a Russian/Ukraine
woman who spoke no English and married her. There are cases where a man
who could not speak Russian, a Russian or Ukraine woman who could not
speak any English, met, married and live happily ever after. I say this
is the exception, not the norm. If you cannot communicate with any woman
directly, it's real hard to get to know any of these women in a short
period of time. Most agencies want you to use an interpreter, to use
their translators. I think if you have to use an interpreter, if you have
to use a translator, you have two strikes against you. If any lady says
she can speak a little English, take it. Most Russian/Ukraine women are
such perfectionist that they under estimate their ability to speak, |
| Be realistic with your expectations. No! 19, 20, 21 year old
Russian/Ukraine girls are not seriously interested in 50, 55, 60 year old
foreign men. Ok, granted, we might find one or two such girls in a
hundred, but it is THE exception, NOT the norm. Be honest with yourself. Give yourself a grade. Give each woman who interest's you a grade. One of the few true myths about Russian/Ukraine ladies is that most foreign men can upgrade as to the type of Russian/Ukraine woman they can find and marry over an American, Canadian, English or Aussie woman. You can realistically upgrade 1.5%. If you rate yourself at a 6.5, you can upgrade to an 8. If you are a 5.8, you can upgrade to a 7.3. If you are an 8, consider yourself lucky and you can upgrade to a 9.5. Russian women prefer older men? You heard that one yet? A common marriage agency myth. Russian culture is such that many Russian/Ukraine women have no problem considering Russian men up to 10 years age difference. With Russian men who are good providers, 12-13 years age difference are often accepted. Russian women who prefer, or are looking for men up to 20 years older,.....not likely. Yes, there will be exceptions, and there are happy, loving marriages of 23-25-28 years age difference, but these are the exceptions, not the norm. And yes, most foreign men think they will be the exception. |
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If you are a foreign man who is in decent shape, who will be a good provider, a faithful husband, good personality, 15 years age difference
should be the realistically largest reasonable age difference one should
push. But I stopped trying to tell men a few years ago what I thought was
to many years age difference. All men, all women, are different and who
am I to tell a man that any woman is either to young or to old for him. For any man who will take his time, for the man who will take this pursuit and adventure seriously, he will have a great opportunity to positively change his life for the better and find the type of wife he had always dreamed of. What was once a well kept secret, the possibility to find a beautiful, caring, wonderful Ukraine/Russian bride, is becoming a little more well known with each passing day. It is my opinion that the number of men who are involved with this most magnificent pursuit today is just the tip of the iceberg compared to the number of men who will be involved with this pursuit in a few years from now as more and more men of the world learn of one of the worlds greatest secret (and Ukraine, Russia's greatest resource), to be able to seek and find the type woman he had always and first dreamed of (thus the name, FirstDream). |
| As each man is different, the means and methods that is best for each man
will vary. Here is where the education I preach about comes into play.
There is no single cookie-cutter method that will work for everyone. What
means and methods work for one man, may not be the best methods for
another. As I have learned, and seen with others, we will often change
our methods from how we first started, from how we proceed once we get a
little more experience and as we build more self confidence by meeting
many stunningly beautiful women. Every man needs to realize that it will be no problem for him to marry a beautiful Ukraine/Russian woman. Many men could, and many men do, marry the first and only Russian woman they ever meet. You will not need my help, or anyone's help, for you to marry a beautiful Ukraine woman. But you might need help in marrying the right Russian/Ukraine woman, the best Russian/Ukraine woman for you. Many men marry the first Ukraine/Russian woman that shows them any affection, or the first Ukraine woman that kisses them, or makes love to them. I have seen the "Yep! We made love, this is the best Russian woman for me" attitude so many times that I think it has to be these men's first time with being intimate with a really beautiful woman. Many men realize that they could never find such a stunning beauty in America, in Canada, in England, and they are afraid if they don't take her now some one else will get her. I am amazed at how many men have this attitude and seldom do these marriages last beyond a few years. |
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Men must realize that their are many wonderful, beautiful, sincere
Ukraine/Russian women to choose from. And you men must also realize that
there are also many beautiful, insincere, scamming women to choose from,
as well many scam Internet marriage agencies and websites. You must know
what you are doing, you must know about the Russian/Ukraine woman you
think you are falling for, or as Clint Eastwood would say, "So, do you
feel lucky". Also today I often see the old 80-20 rule coming into play with many sites and agencies, and in some cities, 80% of all men writing, meeting, the same 20% of women. What is the one common denominator with most of these 20% of ladies who many men are writing and hoping to meet? Most of these women have taken glamour or sexy photos. Today's professional photographers are very good. With many glamour photos today a dog can be made to look beautiful and many times this is what has happened. Many men fall for these women's beautiful and sexy photos. As they write her, as they dream of meeting her, little do they realize that with the photo, or photos, of her that he first saw and went crazy over, this woman will never look this good again in her life. A lot of these photos are two, three, four years old. I think we all looked better three and four years ago. So many times when a man finally meet's this one woman that he has built this great fixation over, he cannot believe he is meeting the same lady as the one he saw in those beautiful, sexy photos. |
| One thing we try to do is to help men to meet some of those 80% of women
who are not being bombarded by so many foreign men. Did you know that if
many of the women in this 80% group had also done a glamour photo they
would also be in the 20% group? It's true. We try to tell men to look at
those ordinary, everyday photos of ladies. Ladies who are on vacation, or
maybe one in which a girlfriend took her photos. Normal, everyday photos.
Photos taken at there flat, or walking around her city. There are MANY
diamonds and beautiful women to be discovered in this 80% group of ladies
and these ladies are not receiving hundreds of letters from men. What I
am trying to say to you men is you have to look beyond the sexy glamour
photos. Many men are not. Many men are overlooking diamonds with marriage
agencies and other sources, which is a good thing for you men who are
going about this pursuit in a smart manner. To do this right, to find the best Ukraine/Russian woman you are truly compatible with, takes time, effort, education or just pure dumb luck. If efficiently done you will have a great chance of finding a wonderful, beautiful, sensual Russian/Ukraine bride. Any man who will do what is necessary to meet a lot of good ladies in a short period of time, and then focus his attention on those few who rise to the top, those few who he feels that potential magic chemistry with, then it will only be a matter of time before he finds his Russian/Ukraine dream bride. It is, to simply put it, a numbers game. Yes their are those rare lucky cases where a guy will meet and marry the first and only Russian woman he ever met and they live happily ever after, but this is the exception, not the norm. You are making such an important decision in your life, you owe it to yourself to be sure and I often wonder how a guy can be so sure that the only Ukraine/Russian woman he ever met was the right one for him if he never had a second, a third, a fourth, Ukraine/Russian woman to compare her too. |
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If you traveled half way across the world to meet one woman, if you have
no back-up plan, no second woman to meet, don't you think the average guy
is going to feel a whole lot of pressure to make sure that the one and
only woman he is meeting is going to work out? Because he is only seeing
this one woman, maybe he will accept a few things he does not like or
agree with, maybe he is afraid to upset her not wanting to look for
another Russian woman. |
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