About Us

Peterhoff, the Palace of Fountains. Peter's summer Palace

Peterhoff, the Palace of Fountains. Peters summer Palace

Hello Gentleman, I would like to take just a few minutes and to tell you a little about our marriage agency.

Those men with a little previous experience will realize that our agency is a lot different from most other Russian/Ukraine/FSU marriage agencies. For those of you just starting out I will mention some of those differences below.

Firstdream incorporated in the year 1998. I felt honored that several men that I had met in Russia in 1996 and 1997 were contacting me and asking for my advice and help, which got me to thinking. By this time I had met some 65 to 70 really wonderful Russian ladies. Seems the few ladies I had real interest in did not have interest in me and the few ladies who had interest in me, I did not have interest in them, but these were all wonderful ladies, just not the right chemistry for man and wife. There was something new that people were talking about and using called the internet. Why not create a site introducing these 65-70 ladies that I had met, knew to be real and sincere ladies, to foreign men and offering services and my expertise to others? So I contacted each of the ladies I had met, asked what they thought about me trying to help them find a good foreign husband. All but 5 of these ladies thought it was a good idea and said sure. Thus was the beginning of Firstdream.

For any man who will take his time, for the man who will take this pursuit and adventure seriously, he will have a great opportunity to positively change his life for the better and find the type of wife he had always dreamed of. What was once a well kept secret, the possibility to find a beautiful, caring, wonderful Russian bride, is becoming a little more well known with each passing day. The number of men who are involved with this most magnificent pursuit today is just the tip of the iceberg compared to the number of men who will be involved with this pursuit in a few years from now as more and more men learn of one of the worlds greatest secret (and Russia/Ukraine's greatest resource), to be able to seek and find the type woman he had always first dreamed of (thus the name, Firstdream).

As each man is different, the means and methods that is best for each man will vary. There is no single cookie-cutter method that will work for everyone. What means and methods work for one man, may not be the best methods for another. As I have learned, and seen with others, we will often change our methods from how we first started as we become more experienced, as we build more self confidence by meeting many stunningly beautiful women
Anna
Anna.
Downtown Odessa

Downtown Odessa.

Every man needs to realize that it will be no problem for him to marry a beautiful Russian woman. Many men could, and many men do, marry the first and only Russian woman they ever meet. You will not need my help, or anyone's help, for you to marry a beautiful Russian woman. But you might need help in marrying the right Russian woman, the best Russian woman for you. Many men marry the first Russian woman that shows them any affection, or the first Russian woman that kiss's them, or makes love to them. I have seen the "Yep! We made love, this is the best Russian woman for me" attitude so many times that I think it has to be these men's first time with being intimate with a really beautiful woman. Many men realize that they could never find such a stunning beauty in America, in Canada, in England, and they are afraid if they don't take her now some one else will get her. I am amazed at how many men have this attitude and seldom do these marriages last beyond a few years.

Men must realize that their are many wonderful, beautiful, sincere Russian women to choose from. And they must also realize that there are also many beautiful, insincere, scamming women to choose from! You must know what you are doing, you must know about the Russian woman you think you are falling for, or be damn lucky.

When the wall first came down the Internet was no factor in helping to meet Russian women. All you had, for the most part, were some very nice, big fancy catalogs that were published by several companies. There were many more published catalogs in those days compared to now. Some of these agencies were very good and you could get several ladies to reply to your letters and meet many of these women. Unfortunately most of these companies with catalogs have disappeared and have been replaced by Internet sites. Today there are many Internet marriage agencies with a great many of these agencies being scam or suspect agencies. Also today I often see the old 80-20 rule coming into play with 80% of all men writing 20%


What is the one common denominator with most of these 20% of ladies who many men are writing and hoping to meet? Most of these women have taken glamour photos or sexy photos. Today's professional photographers are very good. With many glamour photos today a dog can be made to look beautiful and many times this is what has happened. Many men fall for these women's beautiful and sexy photos. As they write her, as they dream of meeting her, little do they realize that with the photo, or photos, of her that he first saw and went crazy over, this woman will never look this good again in her life. A lot of these photos are two, three, even four years old. I think we all looked better three and four years ago. So many times when a man finally meet's this one woman that he has built this great fixation over, he cannot believe he is meeting the same lady as the one he saw in those beautiful photos.

One thing we try to do here at Firstdream is to help men to meet those 80% of women who are not being bombarded by so many foreign men. Did you know that if many of the women in this 80% group had also done a glamour photo they would also be in the 20% group? It's true. We try to tell men to take the time look at those ordinary, everyday photos of ladies who are on vacation, or maybe one of their girlfriends have taken of them when at her flat, or walking around her city. There are MANY diamonds and beautiful women to be discovered in this 80% group of ladies and these ladies are not receiving hundreds of letters from men. What I am trying to say to you men is you have to look beyond the sexy glamour photos. Many men are not. Many men are overlooking diamonds which is a wonderful thing for you men who are going about this pursuit in a smart manner. We also help men to meet women through other means and resources that the marriage agencies.

Olga To do this right, to find the Russian woman you are truly compatible with, takes time, effort, education or just pure dumb luck. If efficiently done you will have a great chance of finding a wonderful, beautiful, sensual Russian bride. Any man who will do what is necessary to meet a lot of good ladies in a short period of time, and then focus his attention on those few who rise to the top, those few who he feels that potential magic chemistry with, then it will only be a matter of time before he finds his Russian dream bride. It is, to simply put it, a numbers game. Yes their are those rare lucky cases where a guy will meet and marry the first and only Russian woman he ever met and they live happily ever after, but this is the exception, not the norm. You are making such an important decision in your life, you owe it to yourself to be sure and I often wonder how a guy can be so sure that the only Russian woman he ever met was the right one for him if he never had a second, a third, a fourth, a tenth Russian woman to compare her too.

If you traveled half way across the world to meet one woman, you have no back-up plan, no second woman to meet, don't you think the average guy is going to feel a lot of pressure to make sure that the one and only woman he is meeting is going to work out? Because he only is seeing this one woman, maybe he will accept a few things he does not like or agree with. But what if a guy had two ladies to meet? Then he would pick between the two of these ladies he thought was best. What if a guy met five Russian ladies? Don't you think his chances of finding a lady he was more compatible with would be better if he met five as opposed to meeting a single lady? And what if a man met 20 Russian ladies. Maybe they are in three different cities. Don't you think a man would have made a much better choice of a lady he was truly compatible with by meeting twenty ladies as compared to meeting a single lady? And if you are one of those who thinks it is to much work or effort in trying to meet five or ten ladies I will tell you it is not as difficult as what you might think. It's what we help men to do in a respectful, fun, efficient and dignified manner.
Many times I hear from men that they just can't date more than one woman at a time, that they were brought up dating, seeing, one woman at a time. Gentleman, we are not dating women who live across town or in the next city, we are seeing women 6000 miles, half the world, away. Some men are going to have to change certain aspects as to how he might have dated women in the past.

For any man who has written one lady, thinks he has fell in love with one lady, and is going to go meet one lady, I have real concern. It is so easy to fall in love with these ladies by looking at her beautiful photo, by writing over the Internet or through letters, by talking over the telephone. Over 70% of all the guys and clients I know who went to meet one woman knew in the first few hours that this woman was not the one for him. Not so good, now to spend the next week with this one woman when you know she is not the one for you and to see these thousands of beautiful Russian women with their big smiles back to you when you are out walking, and there is nothing you can do about it. Well, that is not the case any more. Almost every one of our clients who goes to see one woman now goes with a back-up plan in place. And about 65% of our clients who go with a back-up plan have the balls to put that plan into effect when they realize the chemistry is not there with the one woman they went to see.

On our three city group tour the average man will have meet 195 ladies. Of these 195 Russian women our average client would have had from 20 to 25 private, one on one meetings. From these 195 ladies he chose 20 to 25 ladies that most interested him, and these same 20-25 ladies showed an interest in meeting him as well. If you meet enough good and sincere Russian women then it's just a matter of time before you find your Russian dream bride


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As I mentioned above, the more you read about Firstdream, the more you use Firstdream, you will probably see that we are unlike any other agency. I believe that all men must have direct contact with any lady he has interest in. Unlike a great many agencies and internet sites today, all 470 ladies listed on our site, plus another 2100 fine, beautiful ladies not listed, our clients will have the ladies direct contact information. None of this writing ladies at $6, $7, $8 an e-mail with the agencies removing all yours, and the ladies, personal contact info. NO agency should be in the middle of two people trying to communicate with each other. If you cannot get a ladies direct contact information within a reasonable short time then it's time for you to move on and to try to find ladies you can communicate with directly. Many times we are able to help men to get the direct contact information of ladies from other agencies and websites.

If you need an agencies help in translating an e-mail or delivering a letter, no problem, but this was your choice. Want to verify your lady is real, no problem. We list real references of real clients with real e-mail addresses. We are proud of what are current and past clients have to say. Why do most other agencies not do this? {because they can't} We are selective about the ladies we add to our website. We try to select ladies that are not only beautiful but we must feel they are also sincere in their desire to find a good foreign husband. About 80% of the ladies we have listed, and those we don't have listed, can speak at least a little English. I think it is mostly a waste of time for men to try and meet Russian/Ukraine ladies who speak no English, but I will say there are always exceptions to this expressed opinion. We were one of the first two agencies/sites to create a special scammers section to help men spot some of the more beautiful, more successful scammers in operation. We were the first agency to actually offer free addresses of beautiful ladies until the IMBRA law was passed and we were not allowed to give away addresses to American men any longer! We try to protect our clients from being scammed. Men on our group tours and men that we help individually, will have trips that are so much more fun and efficient when we remove the scam factor. I despise dishonest and unethical marriage agencies, which I think about 65% of the foreign agencies are. When I find an honest and ethical foreign agency I want to latch on to them, to tell the world about them and I will try to send them as much business as possible to help keep these honest agencies around.

If you think you have great interest in a woman or two that you have not met, only written, then you might want to surprise her with a delivery of flowers to her flat, and you need to do this before you get to deep into this or any relationship. Let's make sure this lady is real and the information she has told you is correct. We do not care from what source, what agency or website you have found a lady. Today almost 44% of the time when we deliver a letter, flowers or candy to a lady, we find out the address is bad, she does not live there, she is married, she is not the lady whose photo she has sent, she lives with a boyfriend, or she is a he!

And for those men who do go to see one lady and realize there is no chemistry with the one lady, our people will help these men to visit good and honest marriage agencies in most of these cities. I do not mind a client spending two or three hours with a lady whom there is no chemistry with but I do not want him spending two, three, four days or more with a lady whom there is no chemistry with.

At Firstdream we have worked hard to develop good relationships with honest and ethical local marriage agencies in many of the cities we offer our services. There are diamonds to be discovered in these smaller honest agencies. Many times when the local agency we work with calls and tells one of their ladies that an American or foreign man has interest to meet her, these ladies quickly come to the agency to learn what they can about this man who has interest in them.

During these trips time is a commodity we must manage to use efficiently. We help men to organize their trip and to arrange to see several ladies in the first few days he is in a city. Ideally a man will have interest in some five to eight ladies, and I mean a real, sincere interest in these ladies, and if he does not then he is not ready to make his trip. Once he does have these several ladies of real interest then I help him to see three or four ladies the first full day he is in the city, spending a two hour lunch or dinner with each lady and seeing three or four ladies the second day he is in the city. Now after two or three full days he has met all the ladies he had interest in. Now after meeting five to eight ladies he thought he had real chemistry with, on average, he will have potential chemistry with one of these ladies and he will be darn lucky if there are two ladies he has real chemistry with. But only a few days earlier as he was leaving for his trip in his mind he had real potential chemistry with all the ladies he was going to see. On average for every seven ladies you feel you have a real interest in, with one of these ladies you will have potential chemistry with. A few ladies were not interested in you after meeting, a few ladies you were not interested in after meeting. This happens all the time. It is life. It is natural. Usually for every seven ladies a man has real interest in, and meet's, there will be one lady who has risen to the top, who their is possible chemistry with, and as I mentioned, sometimes there are two ladies. Now he will spend the remaining four, five, six days with the one or two ladies he felt real chemistry with and he will not be wasting his time with any woman there is no chemistry with.

For those men who want to meet several ladies on a trip, we can help your trip to be more effective and efficient. We will make sure you are taken care of from city to city to city on any given trip and all aspects of your trip are covered. Greeting you at the airport when you first arrive, providing you with cell phone upon arrival, getting you a nice flat or hotel in the center of the center, drivers, interpreters, getting you to train station or airport, meeting your lady at train station or airport, having you met when you arrive into next city. How to find these ladies, how to make sure your ladies receive your letters, when to write, how to write, what to say in your letters, what not to say in your letters, how often to write, what type of photo to send. Many little things that make you stand out and gets her attention.

Russian ladies from various cities, regions and countries are not all the same, they will have many differences as a result of the culture in which they were raised. There will be some areas where ladies are willing to accept greater age differences and other areas where they do not. There are many (most) regions where ladies are not as concerned about a man's look but more his heart. Some areas are known for the high percentage of scam and scammers, other areas are known for the great number of sincere ladies.

I have only touched the surface of the many different aspects involved with the pursuit for a Russian dream bride. Without any doubt these are the worlds finest women. Once a man has been involved with a few Russian women most men will never be able to go back to women from his country. This is especially true with American men. Many men have asked me how they will know if the woman he has an interest in is the right woman and I reply "Once a man has meet several Russian ladies, once a man has educated himself as to the ways of Russian women, when you meet her, you will know". A few of the many secrets to success in finding a wonderful Russian bride is education, taking your time and meeting many good ladies.


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